What is ‘caring’
People often think of caring as having to do physical and practical tasks for someone. However, caring can also include other types of support that are more to do with emotional needs and mental barriers.
These might include the following.
•Keeping someone company or supervising them to keep them safe from harm.
•Helping them to go out, and/or to take part in social activities.
•Providing emotional support when they need it.
•Helping them to cook and clean.
•Prompting and encouraging them to dress, wash or eat.
•Helping someone seek help for their mental health problem, including reminding them to take medication, helping them make GP appointments, or attending appointments with them.
•Advocating for them when they interact with other services, like banks, schools or the DWP 1The Department for Work and Pensions. A central government department that pays many benefits in Great Britain.. •Shopping for them or with them.
•Helping with benefits, bills and budgeting.
You might feel that these actions are not ‘caring’ but are just an essential part of your relationship, particularly if the person you are supporting is your child, partner or another close relative. This might mean that you do not think of or describe yourself as a carer. However, you can still be seen as a carer in this situation for benefit purposes, and can still qualify for carers’ benefits if you meet the criteria set out later in this chapter.